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The blog will be on hiatus until May 8th. I am workng behind the scenes to bring you better content, and answer the questions you have about menopause and how it affects your life. I ‘ll have some guest posts, so you can hear from others who are going through the same struggles you’re facing.

Thank you to all my loyal readers, and I have appreciated your participation and feedback. If there is anything you would like to see discussed on the blog, please let me know. My contact information is on the website.


Is Your Retirement a BIG FAT BORE?

Folllow These Tips To Quickly Turn Things Around!

The day I retired was one of the happiest days of my life. No more long commutes, office politics, and putting up with annoying bosses.

However, not everyone is happy being retired. If you were looking forward to traveling, it can be mighty expensive to take that cruise or dream vacation that you’ve been looking forward to. Since you’re trying to get by on less money, you may find yourself searching out free things to do, or just staying home.

Other retirees may not have money problems, but you miss that interaction with co-workers and feeling like you were making an important contribution to your company. If one spouse is used to being home alone, having the other spouse there all day can really set your nerves on edge.

The good news is that if you would like to reenter the workforce, there is always something you can do.

It’s natural to want to go back to the place you retired from, but that isn’t always possible. Asking yourself some important questions will help you zero in on your dream job. What kind of work would you like to do? How much money would you like to make?

Do you want to work full-time or part-time? Are you willing to train for a job or would you like to own your own business? Do you prefer a job greeting the public or do you prefer to work alone?

If you like to travel, consider joining a tour company as a guide. Cruise ships are often hiring and you could be an activities director or work in the gift shop. That way you get to see some beautiful country and make money at the same time.

If you like to camp, working as a campground host not only allows you to enjoy the beautiful scenery year-round, but you will also meet different campers from all over the United States.

Do you enjoy swimming and being out in the sun? Apply for a lifeguard job, and you’ll meet a lot of interesting people to swap stories with. You’ll also have time to work on your tan.

If money is not a problem, consider volunteering at an animal shelter. There are always dogs that need to be fed, walked, and just shown some affection. If you are a dog owner, you may be able to use him as a therapy dog and visit nursing homes and hospital patients.

What kind of work would you like to do in retirement?

Is Your Arthritis Pain Making You Miserable?

It Only Takes Ten Minutes a Day to Feel Better!


When you suffer from arthritis, it can feel like every area of your body hurts. You may feel like just curling up on the couch with a heating pad, or binge watching your favorite television shows. Pain can make it difficult to clean the house, get dressed, or chase after your kids.

That’s why starting an exercise program is so important. It’s often less painful to keep your joints in a bent position. This may work temporarily, but if it becomes a habit, you may experience permanent loss of mobility. According to Doreen M. Stiskal, Chair of the Department of Physical Therapy at Seton Hall University, “exercise eases inflammation, improves energy, and promotes the flow of pain-relieving chemicals like endorphins.”

Range of motion exercises gently stretch the muscles as far as they will comfortably go, and with each passing day, your joints feel less painful. Warm up with these exercises before you engage in any physical activity.

Start slowly and aim for 30 minutes of exercise a day. You can also break it down into three ten-minute sessions. If you aren’t comfortable working out at the gym, try an exercise CD at home such as the Arthritis Foundation’s “Take Control with Exercise.”

Give yourself credit for small changes such as taking the stairs, parking further away from your destination, or walking 20 minutes without a break.

Invest in a comfortable pair of shoes with arch supports. A walking or running store can ensure you get a proper fit. When you’re trying on shoes, wear your workout socks, and walk around in them for at least ten minutes.

Since you’re just starting out, check out indoor malls, gyms, or the YWCA that have an indoor walking track. You can exercise without too many interruptions, and you won’t have to worry about being outside during bad weather.

Don’t forget to do some resistance training. It may seem like lifting weights will be more painful, but that is not the case. A physical therapist or personal trainer can show you the proper form, and match the weights you lift with your current strength level.




Don’t Suffer with Aching Teeth and Gums

4 Home Remedies That Won't Break the Bank!


If you have regular dental check-ups and cleaning, you know that a good part of the time the dentist finds something more serious that needs to be taken care of A.S.A.P. I got the unwelcome news that I needed a root canal followed by a crown. Of course, insurance won’t pay both, so I am going to have to break open the old piggy bank to make up the difference.

You may be experiencing pain in your teeth or gums, and dental treatment is expensive. Since the dentist won’t take an IOU, you’ll have to wait for dental treatment until your bank account is replenished.

Thankfully, there are home remedies you can try in the meantime. Here are four home remedies for aching teeth and gums:


Garlic has been used for medicinal purposes since 3000 B.C. The allicin in garlic contains antibiotics, and other medicinal properties. Crush a garlic clove with some table or black salt, and apply it directly to the painful tooth. If you have strong taste buds, you can chew up one or two cloves of garlic. Repeat the treatment for a few days.


Onions are an inexpensive way to kill harmful germs in the mouth. As soon as you feel a toothache coming on, chew a raw onion for a few minutes, and the pain should subside. If you’re like me and don’t care for the taste of onions, you can apply a piece of raw onion to the affected tooth or gum.

Warm Salt Water

If I had a dollar for every time my mom told me to gargle with warm salt water, I would be a rich woman. Pour hot water into a glass and mix in a spoonful of table salt. Swish thoroughly for a few minutes.  Salt is also helpful for reducing swelling and inflammation, and fights bacteria that can lead to an infection.

Pepper and Salt

I had never heard of this remedy, but if it takes away tooth pain, I’ll gladly use it. Make a paste by combining equal parts pepper and salt with a few drops of water.  Apply to the affected teeth or gums, and let it set for a few minutes.

How do you treat a toothache?

Are You In So Much Pain You Can’t Sleep?

Get Relief By Sleeping on a Water Pillow

I couldn’t get to sleep last night because my neck was killing me. Since I use a support pillow, that shouldn’t be an issue, but I kept turning over, and alternately punching and fluffing the pillow to try to get comfortable.

I have had chronic back pain for 20 years and when I turned 58, I experienced neck pain all day and night. I am always on the hunt for a product that will ease the pain, and now I have discovered a water pillow that may help me get a better night’s sleep.

A water pillow maintains its shape so you don’t have to waste time you could be sleeping trying to get comfortable. It not only keep your head and neck in alignment, it provides support for your whole body.

It’s normal to toss and turn while you sleep, and your regular pillow can end up anywhere on the bed. A water-filled pillow will stay wherever you put it and won’t move around.

Depending on your sleep position, you can adjust the amount of water you put into the pillow. Some people prefer a firmer pillow while others sleep better with a soft pillow.

There are few things more frustrating that needing to get some rest, and the pain of a stiff neck and head is keeping you awake. Keeping you head and neck in alignment may help you sleep through the night and you can’t put a price on that.

“Poor sleep can lead to increased stress hormones that increase the severity of inflammatory skin conditions such as acne or psoriasis,” according to Jessica Krant, MD, MPH, who is an assistant clinical professor of dermatology at SUNY Downstate Medical Center.

Proper sleep means you have more energy, and you may want to start tackling those home projects you have been putting off, or you may feel like going for a run or walk, which will give you even more energy.

How do you get a good night’s sleep?

Kick Menopause Symptoms to the Curb

Join a Support Group for a New Lease on Life!

In the early 1990s I worked in the office at a local rest home. One of my fellow workers was experiencing terrible hot flashes and would sit in front of the fan, peel off layers of clothes, and remind the rest of us she was burning up. As a last resort, she decided to turn on the air conditioning, which would have been fine if it hadn’t been the dead of winter. The rest of the office huddled together like frozen fish sticks until she finally turned it off.

The rest of the world doesn’t seem very sympathetic to a woman in the throes of menopause, and have their own problems to deal with. However, it is helpful to be able to confide in someone who knows what you are going through.

Hot flashes, muscle aches, loss of energy, and weight gain are just a few of the symptoms that you may feel you need extra support to deal with.

That’s where joining a menopause support group can be life changing. These groups are springing up everywhere so there’s a good chance you can join in your hometown. It provides a safe environment where you can tell it like it is without someone telling you to shut up and deal with it.

Every woman deals with menopause in her own way, and a support group brings women together who are facing similar issues. You can pick up some good tips that you’ve never tried before, and maybe that is just what you need to take care of your symptoms.

It’s very satisfying to know that you have made a difference in someone else’s life and you can develop lifelong friendships. Helping other people always takes your mind off your own problems, even if it’s just for a short time.

If there is no support group nearby, you can choose to connect on the internet or by telephone. You can choose a professional group leader, such as a nurse, social worker, or psychologist or just appoint someone from within the group.

When you can openly express your feelings, you  feel less stressed, and better able to cope when troublesome menopause symptoms arise because you know you can always turn to the group for support.

Ask your doctor about finding a menopause support group, or contact a church, library, or community center.  The internet may help you find what you’re looking for, or if you really want to step outside your comfort zone, start your own support group.