When Life Hands You Lemons

Pick Yourself Up and Keep Moving Forward!

I blogged a few days ago about how everything seemed to be going wrong at once. We got the car fixed, the heat pump is in the process of being fixed, Mark is feeling better, and so I thought ok this was a financial strain, but we got through it and it’s time to move on with life.

Then, this week we had a massive storm and the fence blew down. It’s always something, and no one is immune from problems. The only thing you can change is your attitude.

Here are five tips to follow when life hands you lemons:

Accept Change

It may often seem like you are dealing with more than your share of problems, but if you can accept the fact that things in life never stay the same, it will be easier to find solutions when problems arise.

Keep a Positive Attitude

I will be the first to admit this is not always easy, but not all unexpected problems are negative. For example, if you lose your job it may seem like the end of the world, but often it can lead to better opportunities that you might not have been able to take advantage of before.

Have An Alternate Plan

It can be so exciting to put those life-changing plans in motion. Perhaps it’s looking for a new job, a new house, or you’ve decided to go back to school and train for a different career.

Unfortunately, things don’t always work out when we want them to, so it’s always good to have an alternate plan, so you don’t get depressed and not know what to do next.

Practice Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone

There’s no better way to get used to change than getting out of your comfort zone. Introduce small changes in your life. Take a different route to work, invite a new friend out to lunch, or order Chinese and eat the whole meal with chopsticks.

Stress Doesn’t Solve Your Problems

Stressing out is not going to solve your problems, and you’ll just feel more flustered and confused. Put your thinking cap on and decide where you’re going to go from here. Decide what you can fix or improve. In some cases, you might have to make the best of your situation until you can put your plans into motion.





I Screwed Up My Diet Again

4 Ways I'm Taking Back Control


Well I screwed up my diet again.  Too many trips to the buffet, fried chicken, ice cream, and cookies from the Farmer’s Market that are so good they’ll knock your socks off.

So I was getting dressed for church in my one good pair of black pants and I couldn’t even button them around my expanding waistline. What was I going to do? I thought about going into hiding and changing my name so people wouldn’t know it was me, or wearing them unbuttoned with a long slimming top.

I’m not making excuses, even though I would like to, but every other pair of pants that I owned in the same size still fit. I might have drawn the pants up in a hot dryer and maybe that is why they were tight.

So I did a little research to see if I was the only one on the planet that was overeating, and it turns out I have a lot of company. That made me feel better, and now I am on the diet straight and narrow again.

Here are four ways to get back on track after you screw up your diet:

Banish All or Nothing Thinking

Too often when you fall off the diet wagon, there is a tendency to throw in the towel on your diet. Since you ate the fried chicken with all the trimmings, you might as well have a big piece of chocolate cake to top it off. If you feel like you have to give in to your favorite food, sit down and enjoy it, and then get back on track with something healthy like a fruit salad or Greek Yogurt.

Don’t Think of It As Cheating

When you hear the word “cheating,” more often than not something delicious with a lot of calories comes to mind. Give yourself permission to eat some of your favorite foods, and work them into your daily calorie count.

Remember How Good Your Body Feels

It’s important to remember why you’re eating a healthy diet. Sure, it’s fun to give in and eat high-calorie foods, but you often end up with indigestion and a bloated stomach. You’ll be happy to return to healthy foods that are good for your body, make you feel energetic, and help you maintain a normal weight.

Get Some Exercise

Yes, you ingested way too many calories, but there is nothing you can do about that now. If you have a gym membership, lift some weights, ride a stationary bike, or take a fitness class. Schedule an appointment with a personal trainer, who can help you set up some fitness goals to work towards.

Gym memberships can cost an arm and a leg, so if you’re budget-challenged, take a walk, go for a run, hit the trampoline with the kids, or put on some music and perfect your dance moves.





No Time to Exercise?

You Can Even Do This Workout on Vacation!

It’s not always easy to make time to exercise. You’re too tired, you need to pick up the kids, make dinner, and finish any leftover housework that didn’t get done. Working out at the gym means you have to put your workout clothes on, fight rush hour traffic, and you may have to wait for someone to finish their workout routine before you can get started.

This is where resistance bands can be a real life saver. Resistance bands are made of strong, thin rubber and some have handles at each end to grab onto. Instead of having to sweat it out at the gym, resistance bands can be used at home, so you can fit in your workout at your convenience.

Here are five benefits of using resistance bands:

More Economical

Have you priced a gym membership lately?  It can eat up a good portion of your paycheck. You can purchase resistance bands at your local sporting goods store for under $10.00. There is usually the option to buy the bands in a set, which usually includes a DVD you can exercise with.

Different Levels of Resistance

Resistance bands are color coded and there are four levels of resistance. If you’re just starting out you may want to start with the lowest resistance band and once you start making progress, you can up the intensity.

Can Be Used for a Solo Workout

If you’re running or walking, it’s often more fun to do it with a buddy, but you can do a solo workout with resistance bands at home or on vacation. Take advantage of nice weather and exercise in the fresh air.

Can Work the Whole Body

I remember when I went to the gym, I used one machine to exercise my legs, and worked with weights to build up my arm muscles. It’s a lot easier to use your resistance bands to work the entire body at once. The best part is that you’ll also reach your fitness goals a lot quicker.

Shake Up Your Routine

You may have a favorite exercise such as biking, walking, or running, that is keeping you in shape, but over time, the body gets used to a routine and you may find yourself making minimal progress. Use your resistance bands in combination with your favorite exercise, or just do the resistance bands every other day.

Freezer-Friendly Foods for Painful Arthritis

Dinner is Ready in Minutes!


I can remember my working days and since I have trouble judging distance, I don’t drive, so getting to work always involved a few blocks to the bus stop, walking across two parking lots, and then I had arrived and could begin my day. My arthritis was mostly in my back at that time, and I remember having to take a pain pill before I had even worked a half hour. I walked the parking lot on breaks and lunch just to get through the day.

When it was time to go home, I repeated my morning walk and arrived home in about an hour. What was I cooking for dinner?  I was mostly eating trail mix or fast food, and cooking something healthy seemed too much trouble when I could just swing by the food court and pick up a sub or burger.

Menopause is a common time to have pain flare-ups, but you’ll feel better if you take time to prepare healthy food. That is where your freezer comes in. Here are five tips for arthritis freezer-friendly foods:

Freezer-Friendly Foods

If you’re trying to eat healthy, you’re probably eating more whole grains. For a fun twist, you can make oatmeal and freeze it in muffin tins, or try some new grains such as quinoa or bulgur.

Butter, cheese, and nuts also freeze well, and don’t forget broth and stock to make soup or gravies.

Foods That Don’t Freeze Well

Foods you shouldn’t freeze include eggs, or salad fixings such as lettuce, tomato, and celery. Make a fresh salad the day you plan to serve it, and eggs scrambled, fried, or poached taste better when they are hot from the skillet.

Buy in Bulk

Watch for grocery sales, and stock up on ground beef or turkey. Brown the meat and you can add it to chili, spaghetti, or sloppy joes. Chicken freezes well also and can be added to casseroles, chicken salad, or chicken tortilla soup.

Make Extra Batches

When you’re doing your meal prep, make extra batches of pasta sauce, stews, and soups. You’ll thank yourself later when you come home starving but not wanting to stand over a hot stove to prepare dinner.

Pre-Portion Servings

I know it takes extra time, but make single portions of whatever you’re freezing and then you have the perfect size when you’re ready to eat. It also helps keep you on track with portion control.